Dear Lady. Ann:
Good morning Lady Ann, I was in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 11 months before he dumped me, telling me that our relationship was dry, there was no romance and I made him feel empty. Before I got dumped, God told me that he was indeed my husband through a man of God and also through the dreams He was showing me. When he dumped me I was shattered but I trusted God since He told me that He was the one, I thought He would bring him back. We’re both from Malawi but he is in the British Army, so during the Christmas holidays he came back home but I only met him once and he didn’t say anything about getting back together, so I was just praying. Even though We broke up God still showed me multiple dreams indicating that he was my husband. So when he got back to the UK after the holidays he kept on calling me, being nice to me and I was like things are getting back to normal he will soon ask me to get back together and work things out and I was waiting patiently, only to find out that he got married to another woman from Kenya in December. Right now I am completely heartbroken and my spiritual journey is not the same, like why would God give me false hope, why would He tell me he is the man for me only to go and marry someone else. How can I trust God again after this? Please help me because I don’t know what to do anymore.