Dear Lady. Ann:
I would like to remain anonymous, but thank you for allowing me to seek your spiritual guidance. I have come across one of Lady. Ann’s YouTube videos earlier and I have to say that I never wanted the video to end – I took some bits and pieces for myself as I don’t think that it was coincidence that I’ve found it. Okay, a very long story short. I am unmarried, but I have been in a long relationship with a guy for ten years, the very one that I’ve prayed for. We recently became separated after a long list of things happened. However, we are still in each other’s lives due to our son.
Just before we’ve met I’ve always prayed to God to send me a partner with specific characteristics and for God to open my eyes so that I can see him clearly when he comes on my path. So at that time, I was only 14 years old turning 15 and to this day I cannot believe what I’ve seen. My friend and I were busy making jokes when she told me to look down and when I did, I just saw this bright circle of light surrounding him. I remember asking my friend if she saw that too but she had no idea what I was talking about. I immediately started talking to God, asking him for guidance whether this is Him opening my eyes to see this then young boy. I was immediately in tune with this guy like I would sense when he is coming through the gate and I would even feel him near me.
At that time we did not know each other until one day he asked to walk me home. He told me a bit more about himself and how he prayed to God to send someone on his path to help him stay on the right path and to seek God’s purpose. He also said that something told him that I am that one. I did not tell him about my story just yet. We got to know each other for months by just talking. We only started dating in that year when I turned 16. And we lasted 10 years. However, in that time we’ve had two serious break ups, both times because of cheating on his side and him not thinking that he is good enough for me since I’m loyal and he’s always cheating. I always forgave him and gave him another chance and another chance. It was so easy for me to forgive him as I’ve always overflowed with love for him and I’ve always tried my best to listen to the voice guiding me. It always led me to forgiving him.
To sum things up, after he had a short romantic affair with a girl from overseas he decided that he is done with me. But then she had to go back home and he was feeling like superman as a girl from a foreign country was so much into him. I decided that I want him happy and that is a habit of him that he can’t seem to control. When I decided to end things with him, he started to cry and beg me not to leave him as the girl was just a distraction. I don’t know if I was too naïve to agree to take things slow but then he complained that I’m not being like a girlfriend to him, so we spiced things up. I fell pregnant.
But since I was in my second year of university when I fell pregnant my mom offered to look after our son so I could complete my studies. While I was at university, he was cheating again. As time went on, I’d randomly discover that he has cheated on me during times when everything seemed happy between us. I also had like a supernatural dream of a girl with super powers telling me in the dream that she is behind all of our misunderstandings and that she won’t stop until it is all over and done.
A wise Christian lady whom I’ve confided in advised me to go on my knees and to pray for him as he is not the problem but the spirits that are using him to lead to our break-up. But the relationship got to a point where it became so toxic aside from the cheating that I sometimes even tremble when I hear him stop his car in front of our house. To this day, he tries to use manipulation to get his way with me and if I don’t give in, he breaks me down emotionally. This is not the guy I prayed for. He changed over night into someone that I don’t know and I am sure I would not want to know.
My question Lady. Ann is what do I do when the man that I’ve prayed for has fallen in a trap that was set for him to break us apart, do I leave him so that I can heal or do I go on my knees and start claiming back what God has sent on my path?
Father God, I pray that you guide this amazing woman of God to give me a sign. Amen.
Thank you Lady. Ann.
R.