Dear Lady. Ann:
I’m already 23 and still couldn’t find a man for me. In fact my family was already pressuring me because my sister already got suitors while me I’m always focusing on my work. I know there’s nothing wrong with it until one Friday night, it was payday and I felt like going out so I came to invite my friends, but nobody came With me because they went with their bf and this one friend told me “hey you should go travel while you’re still single” but I’m afraid to travel alone. I feel hopeless. I think all I do in my life was work and forget how to have fun. Because I grew up with very strict parents and up until now I was kinda attached to the no bf rule. So out of boredom I joined dating sites, luckily I found someone, exactly what I prayed for and really enjoyed the vibes between us. We became friends for 6 months and lovers for 4 years without video calls just chat. Days had passed and everything became shaky between us. When he got the job in the US I felt like I was dating a different person. And our relationship went on and off because he started lying to me and I have trust issues. Please pray for me that I will make the right decision in choosing a partner because I really wanna date to marry. I want him to be my first and last. Sometimes I even think if there’s something wrong with me or what. Second concern is I’m always afraid to go out of my shell and I get so insecure with girls having perfect partners.