Dear Lady. Ann:
Greetings to you and Bro. Kenny! I am 30 years old, believing God for divine settlement in Marriage. Its been a really rough ride relationship wise. In fact 95% of my ex’ are already married with kids. Other times, a guy could approach me today and go radio silent by the next day. That said, I am writing in relation to a recent man in my life. February 2020, he reached out to me via Facebook and we got talking. Discovered we were literally next door neighbors and grew up in the same neighborhood. Fast forward to weeks later, he disclosed that – (a) he is divorced, having married a German woman at 19yrs to obtain his papers; (b) he has a 9 years old daughter with an Irish lady he met when he relocated to Ireland; and (c) he is older than me 13 years. Also discovered that we are not on the same level in terms of education and exposure. I am a senior practicing lawyer and he just has his SSCE.
This is the first relationship I am in that I have complete peace, despite the lapses. For the first time, I was unconcerned about standards or disparities. But I am wary of breaching Scriptures. I had hoped to join your teaching on Divorce on Thursday but missed it. Went back to watch the recording but didn’t quite understand.
Please advise me. Thank you.
XOXO
E.D