Mon | Jul 19, 2021

Should I Remain Cold To My Boyfriend, too?



Dear Lady. Ann:

24 years old in a distance relationship for 1 year now. Few months back he talked to his mum about us which she accepted then later changed her mind later. I spoke with him and demanded his view, he told me that’s not an issue because he’ll make her understand it’s his choice. Communication had dropped since then where we talked about it and he promise to adjust but it seems bringing the issue up just worsen it. Even the 30mins we’ve to chat, he’s never in the conversation. My phone got bad, so was using friend’s phone so we chat yet he did same, as in was never in the chat and kept telling me to go give the phone to owner if I’ve nothing meaningful to discuss. So I decided to quit the chat with her phone behold till date(1 week now) he’s never called to find out anything. He messaged me on FB days back, I didn’t respond because he made me understand that I shouldn’t message him with someone’s phone for unnecessary things as he said. He commented on my posts on FB, I still don’t respond. Please advice me, I don’t know what to do & am also ready to walk away from stress and disrespect.