Dear Lady. Ann:
I Love what you do and how God is using you to change us, I have learned so much from the group ever since joining and I have invited my sisters and friends. Now I need advice. I got married to a guy that was not a believer, I thought he would change but I was so wrong. We moved to another country from our home and started building ourselves up. We did good, I tried encouraging him for us to go to church and participate in forums to build our marriage. He was okay with it but still he had his struggles with drinking alcohol. We disagreed someday about handling finances and it created a big problem. He gave me silent treatment for a whole year and didn’t want to talk with me despite my efforts to resolve the issue and during that period he had an affair with another woman. It was the most difficult time especially being in a foreign country with your family far away from you.
Then out of nowhere he started threatening me and asked for a divorce. I would cry to God asking Him to bring him to His kingdom and for him to come back home. Things got out of hand, We ended up divorcing but that was never my wish. Two years down the line, he started Sending me Bible verses and asking me about my spiritual journey. If he is to do something he asks that I pray with him about it. I have been single since the divorce with no kids, I will be turning 34 yrs this year, my question is how can I truly know that he has changed and should I go back? I have been praying for a husband that will worship God with me.
Thanks