Dear Lady. Ann:
I trust I find you well, I am in a bit of confusion. In February of this year I got into a relationship with a guy, well I didn’t expect it to last or go anywhere, as I was on rebound. Unfortunately or fortunately I fell pregnant, he Accepted the pregnancy and met with my family, we eloped and have been staying together since July. I Learnt of the person I chose after staying with him and it’s painful the journey I am having with him. He is promiscuous, and I mean a serial cheat, each week he is with a different person. One sat in Sept he left me to be with one of his girlfriends and unfortunately I lost our baby that same night.
I have failed to forgive him ever since and I keep on asking myself what am I still doing with him, it would have been better for me if he had left her but the relationship got stronger and it kills me every time. It’s Christmas season and he took me to his family, I am here but my heart is not happy, I am trying to do what people have been saying, give him time it has been 7 months and there is no change. I am afraid my time is also running. I have been praying to God for clarity and each time I do, Mr. does not sleep at home. I am still puzzled if these are the answers I am waiting for and afraid of moving on.