Dear Lady. Ann:
I wish I could shorten my letter, but I have many things to pray and ask for.
I’m a wife, mother of a 5 month old son and a doctor.
I haven’t been in any strong commitments before with a man, but in our culture there is a matrimony site and I happened to meet a guy who is a christian and claimed to be a doctor and fakes to the entire world who believes, neither he has certificates too. All I wanted was a christian husband who can be with me and become one with God. I liked him from the very first day of meeting and his words were sweet like honey. All I wanted was to have a christian marriage with him. I wanted to be true to him so I spoke all about the guys who proposed to me and my past. But he never was true. The worst thing was before I was sure of him, I was in physical relationship with him thinking its not a sin as I’m going to marry the same but I forgot I was sinning against God.
Later we got married and within 1 week of marriage I saw pictures of him with girls in bed, nude pictures in fact and that vision is still a nightmare for me. He just said he was sorry. With time I found out he was interested in finding his exes on social media, watching porn. When confronted he never agrees to his mistake. Moreover I came to know he is not even a doctor and cheated on me with his profession too and he works just as a Spanish teacher.
One week to the delivery of my baby and I saw text messages of him with a friend talking about bachelor party and prostitutes and the prices regarding each night with them. That shook, shocked and has broken me completely. I completely lost love and respect for him because despite all these, he raises his voice on me and verbally sometimes physically abuses me. Whenever I speak about prayer and God he doesn’t like to speak much and read bible. I am waiting for the day he just stays true to what he is and shows his true side to me and the world and walks as a true christian and also eagerly waiting for your reply.