Dear Lady. Ann:
I have been in a relationship with lots of challenges to the extent that it has extended to families on both sides. I recently joined my husband with our kids in the USA. I realize that my husband is cheating with a lady who was introduced to me as a family member. But my step daughter happens to be in close touch with the lady. She visit the house while I was away and upon my return, I noticed that my pictures including our wedding photos were missing in the living room. My husband would stay out for couple days and he works night shift to justify this. My stepdaughter has been disrespectful and brainwashed by my husband that I hate her. My son (my husband’s step son) has been under emotional pressure by my husband. He has completely neglected him.
Until recently (last month), my brother visited us from Africa and he saw the ill treatment from my husband. To the extent, he had a quarrel with him. I have been mostly occupied with studies for Masters program and pretty much with my younger kids (6 and 1 year old). I literally have no clue of my husband’s investments back in Africa as everything goes through his elder brother who has demonstrated in many ways of his dissatisfaction of my relationship with his brother.
In summary, I’m not sure what the future holds for me in the relationship and we have 2 kids in addition to the steps we already had. I need you to join me break every chain in my home. I have cried, and continue to feel depressed. I need God’s intervention.
Thank you.
God bless!
Abie.