Dear Lady. Ann:
I’m charlotte, 38 years old and I had been in a narcissistic relationship with my ex boyfriend 2 years ago. It’s hard for me to let go and move on even though I know it’s a toxic and abusive relationship, he is the one man I called “My one and only “ because I never had any man in life. It’s been 6 years of on and off relationship since 2017! We were supposedly getting married and everything was ready until he cuts all our communication until I can’t reach out for him to ask for explanation. He deleted our photos together on social media and removed our common friends.
To make the story short his family was the one who reached out to me to say sorry for everything and just let him go until my boyfriend finds himself again. I thought it’s just normal because it happened before, like a cycle he will just come and go. And now I’m sick and tired of these games. (Called it game because I think he’s just playing around every girl included on his loop) I’m already 38 turning 39 and I could hardly believe that those times with my ex was just a wasted time. I really want to overcome and move on so I can find the right man for me, the serious one. I don’t want to be afraid as time runs so fast and feel desperate that while some woman was happily married, while some are into relationships and yet I feel unlucky of being left alone. I don’t want to pressure myself and yet I don’t want to deal these anxiety or depression since my ex boyfriend left me. I need enlightenment. I need my self back, the happy “me” that I used to be. 🙏😞
Thanks
😌charlotte