Dear Lady. Ann:
I am a 28-year-old single woman and I have been at my current job for 5 years, where I have made a few great friends. In the past year, I have fallen in love with one of my co-workers. We became really close a few years back and our friendship has now gone beyond our working environment. We spend a lot of time together outside of work and he is very supportive of me.
We have a lot of chemistry and we understand each other without saying a word. Everyone at work thinks we are dating, and he is referred to as my ‘work husband’. He treats me very different from his other female friends and I could almost tell that he feels the same way about me, but alas, he has never made a move. We keep flirting and sharing intimate details of our lives with each other, but that won’t cut it for me anymore.
I want a real relationship with him and I am tired of waiting and hoping he would tell me how he feels about me. So, I want to tell him how I feel about him, hoping he would tell me that he feels the same way about me too and we can start dating. Lady. Ann, what do you think?
-Desperate
#DLATribe, should she tell him or not?