Dear Lady. Ann:
I have been dating a guy for about 6 months now, I am a single mom of a 7 year old boy. Everything has been perfect between us until a few weeks ago when he started to feel off and distant. We have talked and he says that he doesn’t see himself as a dad or step dad, he doesn’t want kids of his own. He loves me and if we end up together he wants to love my son as his own. But as of right now, he doesn’t think he has what it takes to raise a child. He wants some time alone to gather his thoughts and make a decision.
What should I do? I’m 25 and he is 37