Dear Lady. Ann:
I’m 24, and all I want is happiness. I met my baby father 4 years ago, 2018 we decided to live together. I become pregnant 2 months after we live together. Everything was great until his mother came back in his life. She start to poison his mind from me, because he believe that the only person who love him was his mother, he takes her side. He doesn’t know his father. He was loving and caring, I was everything to him, but after he listens to his mother. I had a baby before my due date at 6 months because I was stressed. I had a daughter, she lived for 2 days. I did not get any comfort from my baby father or therapy to help me. After this experience, my baby father became disrespectful, a cheater, abuser, stopped providing for the house and accused me of throwing away the baby. His mother told him not to eat my food, not to sleep beside me, not to have sex with me.
I pray and cry to God because I don’t understand what’s happening in my life. Females start to call him and he doesn’t care if I’m there, he put his hands on me because of two women and said they are pregnant for him and asked me to leave them because they are going to get married. I was so hurt because I give this man my all and he started treating me so poorly. When I call his mother to tell her what happened she belittled me. 3 weeks ago his mother came to the house and threw me out of the house. I felt like God gave up on me because I’ve been through so much growing up and I change my life in 2016, asked Him to provide my way and He did. And I asked Him for a husband and He sent me my baby father. He was everything a woman could ever need. Then everything changed. I cry so hard. I’m not close to my family members so I’m just alone and frustrated with everything.