Dear Lady. Ann:
On the 13th February 2021 I happened to log to YouTube only to watch Pastor Joel Osteen but it happened that I saw your face with the heading, “My testimony: I went from Single to Married in 5 months” I was like Wow, why not let me watch this. It was so inspiring and truly a testimony that is to be heard altogether with others. I know that this anointing can actually do something to my case. This is my story: I am a born again Christian 31 years virgin, I never dated before except online but never was successful, I never kissed or had sex before.
I strongly believe that sex is for married couples and looking at my family’s background with the fornications, adultery, divorce, incest different fathers etc., I want a different generation of God given marriage that will represent Him and become a blessing to nations and nations. I am somebody who faces a lot of rejection for love and I also reject. I get to be deceived by guys who act like they like me and when I avail myself to them they reject me and I become a laughing stock. I do believe that there could be spiritual forces that could be against me to get married and I do believe in the power of God to deliver me from all of that.
I attend a Prophetic Church with wonderful parent in the Lord who have taught me how to live as a Believer of Christ Jesus and my life is testimony everyday as I grow in love with Him. Several times I have been told that I will get married and yes I believe but I face painful rejection and shame or no mutuality at all. I did some things that were quiet weird, by actually going to a brother I liked and ask him out but they will reject me, and there was this one whom I believed he was the one since he always looked at me and would pray towards me during intercession. I prayed to God that I am going to ask this man to marry me, and guess what I did.
I wrote him a letter stating that and gave him after the service and left, he was so happy to meet me and wanted us to meet again. To my surprise the next service he came with this beautiful sister and the next thing they went to the Apostle’s office for wedding discussions, poor me with my hopes. He never called me since I wrote numbers on the letter. I somehow got his numbers from his friend and spoke to him; he instead responded by saying I should be careful, that men should not take advantage of me and not to destroy my life. I was so mad, disappointed to hear him speak like that. I believe under the power of the almighty God on His authority that no man can destroy my life but God will protect me and save me from such.
I then decided to keep quiet, serve God and never entertained anything about relationships but to get a job and continue to live my happy Christian life with no stress. I cried so badly for my former actions of asking guys out or guys who asked me out and were not compatible with, but I healed and enjoyed my salvation. Since I was unemployed I would go to Church and served God by cleaning the floors, packing chairs etc. I prayed to God one day that He should give me a job that will take me to my destiny and after 30 minutes one of my sisters in the Lord told me about a waitressing job at the airport and I was like… “Waitress” gosh I don’t want this, but I was reminded by the holy spirit that I just prayed for a job.
Oh well I did not hesitate I went for it, I was not even interviewed, I was taken to the international department and served there. It was not cool at all, got only tips for a living and it was the busiest and biggest restaurant in the entire airport and the bosses harshly treated their staff. I quitted the job so many times but would come back and not be fired but when others are even late for days they got fired. I then decided to learn to love my situation and job and things became so easy that way, I got so many tips from people around the globe who loved my smile and English accent. I met people who was blessed by my presence and that is where I began to take my job seriously and now working for God, serving His nations from different parts of life with love and not caring about how much I make any more but to make my customers happy and pray for them in my heart. To cut the story short, hmm.
I happened to attend a service on my off day and to my way home my sister and I started speaking about football and the team that won the cup. We were shocked to find out the team that won was most not the team we thought it could win that big title. We love sports and once in my life I wanted to get married to a sport man and also wanted to be in a interracial marriage, something different for my generation. A colorful record breaking God-fearing marriage that’s what I wanted long ago. I even forgot about that dream, well we spoke and laughed about the team but congratulated it and went on. I think a day or two when I was at work serving, I served a single table of a man who said to me, “you know what young lady the job you doing, you will meet someone who will sweep you off your feet” I smiled but I didn’t really want that, I was done with issue of relationships so I just went off.
Sister Ann, in about 30 minutes time here comes a football team to our restaurant and the one my sister and I were speaking about, the team that won the cup they were flying to play for a team somewhere in Africa. Wow but in a way I kind of forgot about that conversation I had with my sister about this specific team. Oh well most my colleagues fought to serve the football players because they are famous and successful, everyone took their group and I just stood by the entrance. And in a blink of an eye where everyone was gone and only myself was there, a table for three came in, of football players same team and I took them, sat them and gave them menus, while they checked what to order. I was reminded to say ” Congratulation” to them I believe it was the holy spirit and little did I know that in as much as it was the winning team, it was also a winning table, meaning I served not only the winning team but also the team that scored the goals to win.
I served them their food and while I did that one of the member asked my numbers but I pretended to be very busy because I did not want to give him, but he was asking for his friend right opposite him, the man who actually was the one who scored goals for the team to win. Actually the guy whom I close by his face congratulated them not knowing that he was the one who scored, because I never watched the game. Okay the Man of the Match took the second order, asked for a chocolate brownie cake but I placed a chocolate brownie shake instead and gave him but he said this is not what he ordered.
I wrestled with him for a while even worried about the fact that I will pay for the order if he doesn’t take it. He said he doesn’t want it and he offered other ladies but they refused so I instead took it and drank it in the kitchen but told him that I will pay for this and he said I should not worry he will pay. And the Man asked my numbers not his two friends on his behalf this time but himself did it. He gave me his phone and I typed them down not sure I gave him the right ones or not but I gave him. In my mind I had nothing in thought but as I saw them leaving, the man of the match looked at me with these eyes full of affection but was quiet. The day went on and I got home and relaxed but then I started to think about the guy and so all the signs from church discussed with my sister about football, the single table of that man I served who quite prophesied to me about someone who will sweep me of my feet and about my long dream of getting married to a football player and have a interracial marriage all of that made sense, the man is Latin American and I’m African.
Sister Ann, My spirit touched my heart and I feel for love him, right away and couldn’t believe that I could actually love someone again after so many rejection, but this love was not too strong to take my breath away but was peaceful. Then I started to watch my phone hoping that it would ring but it would not. Day after day, month after month the man would not call. I started to be frustrated and asked God why this process and why would this man ask my numbers and get back to me. I would go on the internet to ask why do guys ask girls numbers and never call you and the answer was that, it’s a common thing that guys do but I knew my situation was not as common. I stopped these Google search and online advises and started praying to God concerning this man and asked God that at least let me meet him again and get his contacts maybe I Gave him the wrong ones.
oh no, I checked him on Google since he is a football star, found out about his life and I was so curious about his religion and as time goes on I would watch his games and interviews and I would hear him mentioning Jesus in Spanish and thanking him and so I got so excited saying he did not just only asked my numbers but he is also a Christian. I gained so much confidence in my spirit to trust God for this man. He became my dream man and the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. I prayed till one day my colleague served the three guys from the team but he was not there only his friends whom I served before with him. I had the courage to go to them to greet them and they were happy to see me and asked whether their mate called me but I said no he didn’t and they said he said he will call you, well then I said where is he, they said he went back to his home because of the injury he had to go for some surgery but then I asked his numbers from his friend and he happily gave me.
I got home thank God and texted him via WhatsApp and he responded after some time and happy to hear from me but our conversation was never as active as I thought. He stopped talking to me period, never responded to my texts, never showed any interest at all and that sadden me and reminded me of my past. I cried again but with this one I get to hope even more and believe in God for my journey of love to be successful because now this man is the man of my dreams and I want him to marry me. In fact I believe we are suppose to be together and this time no giving up, I need this special anointing and miracle to make it happen for me. As I pray I was busy sending him motivational letters and one day he responded by saying he is back from his country and now here in my country.
It was midnight that we spoke for some time I was happy but he never said anything about liking me or anything about us having a relationship instead he wanted me to send him my pics, well I did send him like normal nice pics but he demanded more and sexy like naked pics and I told him I don’t have and I won’t give him. He said I should take a pic of me from my bed then I asked him why do you want these pictures, do you want to masturbate and he said maybe. I knew he wanted to and I entertained him by asking his pics, he sent me a pic of him wearing an underwear and didn’t show his face but it was his body since I knew his structure but he needed more from me but I did not send anything naked. So he stopped talking to me. I decided to stop texting him for three months and asked God that He establish this thing I don’t know what it is, that God turn this lust to love and I took his half naked pic and pray over it. I still do even now.
By the way we met December 2019 we are still in contact even now but he does talk to me, I sent him a new year’s message for 2021 he never responded and I sent him a birthday wish on his birthday 26 January this year and he finally responded. I think because I had a hot pic of mine texted it with nice messages for him and he said “gracias” meaning thank you blowing love kisses and I said the please is mine and he never responded until I posted a nice pic of mine on the profile pic. Then he decided to blue tick me, oh my God this man shows no interest in me but he checks me out online all the time and I feel in my spirit that this man is from God for me but he suffers from lust and not so much love or care he show or interest for me, but my faith presses on to believe that this man will fulfil the prophecy in my life for marriage, I just need the grace to endure the process.
On valentines I sent him hot pics because I knew he would blue tick, this time I took wearing a bikini and wearing the waitress uniform he saw me wearing the first time we met and wished him a happy valentine’s day but he looked at my bikini pic and was not impressed. I asked him what’s wrong with my pic, he send a funny face and asked for a naked pic. I was so bored with his behavior and he stop chatting with me. I said to myself I’m done with this, by the way I have not been working since March 2020 because of the lock down. I was fed up but after a while I got restored to believe that this man is my man and I again believed in God and as I speak right now we still not talking and he does not say anything, but once ago I asked him why did he ask my numbers since I wouldn’t understand why he is treating me like this, and he said because I’m cute and that made me feel bad because I wanted to hear him say because he would love to date me.
It also once happened that he wanted us to meet but he was not so kind in asking me out, as we spoke to organize that he decided to be quiet and it never happened. In all of this I have this hope in my heart that this man is my husband and God loves him so much to shape him to be a genuine God fearing football player, Play for Christ Jesus. He is currently injured again, he is going through injury after injury and I am praying that God heals him and deliver him to play get back on the field, to be saved and to love me and finally make me his wife. I read the testimonies of others and I believe that God can grant me my testimony, by using you to help me to tap into this grace of a miracle of change.
I believe God can use and change people and I believe this man is my husband even though he does not show any interest in me, I don’t think he would to another unless he lusts them. I want God to turn this lust to love for me and make me his wife, I want him to be born again and be a decent man in Sport history, I want us to own a football club in the future and help bless young talents in Africa, South America and the rest of the world. I see us owning restaurants and properties and be kingdom financiers, that is a picture I have drawn and I even go visit bridal boutique to fit wedding dresses declaring him as my husband, and also visited jewelry shops fitting rings. I even exercise and watch football and sometimes play football, I now even plan to buy a ball to always kick it and thank God for him, I pray that God heals and delivers him.
Sister Ann, I pray, hope that I be in his arms soon declared his wife his first lady and only, this year . I even ask for nine months from now on will be my birthday by “November”, he must propose to me, though he doesn’t talk to me right now and show no interest in me or promised me anything or asked me out. I want all of that to change. He caught me when I was least expecting and swept me off my feet. I need the power of God to have him and also be a blessing in his life, to be his helper and that he becomes the best striker and scorer at all time for the glory of the kingdom of God. I am looking forward to come back with testimony as the prayer warriors take over and also following your unique anointed techniques that will favor my situation, in Jesus mighty name. Amen