Wed | Apr 15, 2020

I Thought He Was The One For Me



Dear Lady. Ann:

I write you this email because I’m so overwhelmed and so disappointed and in pain. Please hide my identity. I have been in a relationship with a man of God for more than a year now, and just about months before we complete our 2 years, one day I woke with a text that says he has been praying and found out that he is not supposed to be involved. Well, truth is I was and still am shattered, battered and bleeding and have been asking God questions as I had so many questions that he is my husband, we were always happy and a lot of common things together and always praying and sharing the word of God together. I did all prayers with you for 5 days and the 3 days we did recently but now I really don’t know what God is trying to tell me, he has never given me any red flags, everything was good just as I have prayed.

So I would really love to get some advice from you and my sisters, I pray if this is where our journey ends God should grant me stillness and peace, its been a couple of days now not communicating. Its even like he blocked me on his WhatsApp because my last message to him made only one tick but I still see his statuses and display picture.

If its for me may God restore it for me but if not, as much as its hurting, may God wipe my tears. I am really hurting to think that I have wasted my time in a relationship I have invested so much inπŸ˜₯πŸ’”πŸ˜­