Dear Lady. Ann:
I’m 23 years old going on 24 years old on January 24th. I’m an Aquarius, I love to have fun and go out and travel. I’m in a relationship with a 35 year old man, we have an 8 month old daughter together and I love him and really want to spend the rest of my life with him. I’m scared he might leave me and my daughter alone. I don’t have anybody else but him. I don’t talk to my family because they’re toxic. But I’m hurting inside because I don’t trust him. I feel like he wants to take our baby away from me, I’m questioning myself in God whether I should be in this relationship all my life.
I am trying to find someone to love me. But I really think I’m falling apart because I don’t trust him and I feel like I’m not able to trust him because of past things he’s done to hurt me. And also because of his friend’s girlfriend, I allowed her make me feel insecure about the relationship. I feel like I’m hurting him because I don’t trust him. But I’m scared to lose myself. I just feel so sorry for him for not allowing myself to love because I have been hurt before in the past and I really want to heal but I want to know if he’s the man for me. I’m just scared he’s not the man for me. I’m questioning myself whether he’s my soulmate.