Dear Lady. Ann:
I have been following and watching most of your videos on YouTube and I must bless God for what He’s using you to do. I am a believer and yes I have my experiences of the calling. I have been praying about my marriage, academics among others and God has been faithful. I have lots of suitors but I need the support of fellow believers in prayers for God’s guidance so I don’t choose the wrong man. God has taken me through several phases and I believe for the purpose of God to be fulfilled, the man I will settle with, will have a great influence so I cannot choose wrongly. All my life I have been in two relationships but ended the first one through the direction of the Holy Spirit (he was also in the ministry but was deceptive). I ended up sinning with the second one even though I received several instructions and warnings concerning occurrences like that but have repented, I believe he has too as we were both sorrowful and took time separately to pray for forgiveness and restoration.
My concern is although I feel something for him and, he still pursues me and hope we marry someday, I get scarce to think that he might not be God’s perfect will for me. There are several suitors too but right now I simply want to choose knowing God is giving me His approval. Is there any possibility he might be the one but we both were disobedient earlier? Also, my studies abroad had to be on hold because of the pandemic but now that several restrictions have been lifted, brethren should help me in prayers for my Visa applications to go through so I can catch up with my mates before the year ends.