Dear Lady. Ann:
Good morning Lady Ann. Please pray for me. I Want to know if this man is the one for me and if so help me fight for him in prayer. My full name is Lempi Amutenya. I have this great desire for marriage. I am a born again converted Christian and I strongly love the lord. I’m a 28 year old virgin. I seem to only or mostly attract only worldly men. I keep rejecting many of them because most are not at my spiritual level. There was a great man I met last year just when I joined a specific church where I am currently attending. The young man’s name is Samuel Mulunga. He is 40 years. I met him at the church office when I took some clothes out for charity. He smiled at me and asked for my number. I gave him my number and we went out for a few dates and met at my place. We never kissed or had sexual relation. He only wanted to get to know me about my family, visions etc.
This was the 1st man I met ever. I feel I’m spiritually and emotionally and physically connected to. He asked us to pray if this was God will. So according to him he fasted with his sister and had to get some advice from mentors. I prayed but never fasted. He came back to me after a week and he told me he does not have the energy to pursue me. He says he is comfortable with me and has access to me but he feels it’s a choice for him not to pursue me. He told me to scratch him out of my list of man’s choice. I asked him why and he doesn’t want to say. I asked him if there is a future for us and he says he is not God so he doesn’t know.
I am in a healing process. Ever since he said that I never contacted him although I don’t have a problem if he speaks to me. I just wish he told me why I should remove him out of my list of man options. I want to move on but it’s like I’m hearing a powerful voice that this man is the one for me. The 1st time I stepped in their church, he was the 1st man I saw. I parked my car next to his and he helped me to park the car as he was on duty at church that morning. When I walked away after parking I heard a little voice saying that is my husband. But I just ignored as I thought it was just my own voice until I met him at the church office when I took my clothes for charity.
Why am I still holding on to him? Please I want to know the voice of God regarding this matter, should I let him go or should I continue to fight for him in prayer? I am part of the irresistible mentorship program. I’m still on week 1. Last night I prayed your prayer on single women part one and I broke generational curses. It was so so powerful. I was crying and praying in tongues I really felt the Lord’s power over me.
Lady Ann. I’m in agony. I want to know the Lord’s mind. What should I do?