Dear Lady. Ann:
I have 2 kids with my baby daddy. We have been separated for over two years, and I have completely moved on from him. I don’t want nothing to do with him outside of the kids. That is all we talk about. Even if he ever came back begging, I wouldn’t take him back. Not only because I’m genuinely done with him, but I am currently in a good relationship, and I am happy. My boyfriend is a good and loving man. He loves me and my kids. He is like a second father to them. I am genuinely blessed.
So, my daughter recently requested for a TV in her room for Christmas. I told her I would tell her daddy about it and when I did, he agreed to buy her one. He did buy it and was supposed to come hang it on the wall for her. I was fine with that because she also wanted her daddy to help. My children have a good relationship with their daddy, and I try not to interfere with that. But my boy friend got really upset that I allowed my baby daddy come hang the TV up when he could have done it. It made no sense to me. I told him it was something he was doing for his daughter and my daughter requested for her daddy. I think he is worried that my baby daddy still wants me, but even if that was the case, I am not interested. I have told him this several times, but he seems insecure. I don’t know how to make him secure. I really do love him. Please, help!
#DLATribe, what’s your advise?