Dear Lady. Ann:
I feel so terrible and guilty for destroying a really good relationship. I recently got into an argument with my boyfriend over a disagreement we have been having for so long. I have always wanted a family and my boyfriend is aware, but he keeps avoiding every conversation I bring up about kids.
I got tired of waiting, so I confronted him and asked him what our future really looked like for him. He responded with “I’m not sure yet, let’s see how things go”. We have been dating for 8 years and he still needs time to see how things go? I got so furious and ended things with him. That night, I went to a bar, had too many drinks and had sex with his best friend.
It is the biggest mistake in my life and I felt so guilty afterward. My boyfriend came to my apartment the next day and wanted to start afresh with me. He said he was ready to start a family with me and didn’t want to lose me. All I’ve ever wanted was standing right in front of me, but I couldn’t bring myself to tell him I had cheated on him with his best friend. I don’t know what to do. Lady. Ann, please help me.
-My biggest regret
#DLATribe, should she tell him? How can she deal with the situation?