Dear Lady. Ann:
I saw the letter you posted recently from the lady who wanted to be celibate till she was married, and I decided to share my story. Unlike her, my husband and I decided not to have sex before getting married but now I wish we did. I didn’t get married as a virgin. I have an intense sex drive and have had some beautiful experiences in the past. I lived a great life as a single woman and dated men that knew how to please me.
As amazing as all that was, I was ready to start a family, and all the men around me were not ready for such a commitment. I wanted a real man that was responsible, good to me and amazing in bed. When I met my husband, it felt like a dream. He is such a great guy and he loved me. He told me sex could cloud our judgement and would prefer if we waited. It felt unreal that a man would suggest celibacy and I wasn’t willing to let this rare breed go. We dated for 2 years and then got married. Looking back, I wish I had insisted we had sex.
He is still the amazing man I fell in love with, but my husband has not been able to satisfy me sexually due to longevity and size. We have tried different styles and sex toys, but I am still not satisfied. He is an amazing man like I said, and I have had an amazing time with him, but sex is a big deal for me. I can’t tell my husband because it could hurt him, but I can’t keep living like this either. Cheating is out of the question, I just need tips on how I can enhance our sex life.
-Unsatisfied Wife
#DLATribe, how can she enhance their sex life?