Dear Lady. Ann:
I met a man in high school, we were just really good friends then. We stayed close until his family moved to another city and we lost contact for about 3 years. When we met again it was like I met him yesterday. We became very close and after 6 months we started dating. It was great. Then one day he got really sick that I had to go stay at his place so I could take care of him. The first night I slept next to him I dreamt of a woman coming to me and asking why I want to take away what belongs to her and that I have been disturbing her, she is failing to do what she used to do because of me. When I woke up, I didn’t think much of it but it kept happening the whole 4 days I was there. I got scared and told my mother that it was best I leave him because I was bringing a spiritual battle to myself that I didn’t think I was ready for.
Then one day he just said he is not sure about us and he is scared as to where the relationship is going. I did not argue with him, I accepted it. We stopped talking since we were trying to move on. Then one night after prayer I dreamt that a bus dropped me at a house that was surrounded by darkness and creatures were trying to fight the person in the house. As I looked closer it was him. In the dream I said I cannot do this, why would he drop me here. I started to look for ways to run and the bus came back and I quickly jumped into the bus and it started off. After a while we found that the bus was going in cycles. We would drive for a long time but would find ourselves at the same house, so everyone in the bus started to complain.
Then the man driving the bus turned to me and told me I was the reason we were going in cycles. When I asked how, he said “there is a reason you were dropped there.” Until you fulfill the purpose that is required of you at that place then you won’t be able to go anywhere. When I woke up I was so disheartened as I didn’t know how to go about it or what I should do. I had so many questions but I kept praying for guidance. After a while he came back and I started to teach him about prayer and deliverance and about Christ but I had to try to forget about us dating, which was also hard because I did love him. Each time I take time to pray for my future husband, he is the one I see but always with the emphasis that there is a battle to be fought and I am the one to fight it. I have been praying Lady. Ann, now he is able to pray with me, do fasting with me, read the word with me and even ask me what it means and we discuss it. Do I continue doing this or it was just me imagining things? Is he really for me?
I pray I get the 49 dollars soon so that you can mentor me too.
I love you Lady. Ann, please help me as the spirit leads you to.