Dear Lady. Ann:
This is about two guys in my life at the moment and I like both of them. One is in a different country, we don’t really know each other personally but his relative kinda connected us. He is very nice, gentle and everything I pray for in a guy. He has been honest with me about his feelings. And I have told him we should pray about it for confirmation before we can start anything.
The 2nd guy is in the same country as me and is my friend and has the qualities I want in a man as well. I kinda liked him before I got introduced to the other guy but he hasn’t been open about how he feels and I’m scared to ask him. People we both know (including his mum) have tried to get us to be “more than just friends” but we never seem to talk about it. So sometime ago I decided to let go of my feelings for him. I recently had a dream about us almost kissing and I don’t know if that’s a sign or its just me thinking too much. I’m only 22 years, do you think I’m being desperate and what should I do??