Dear Lady. Ann:
I was invited to this group by a very dear friend, and I must say I’m happy to be a part of it. I have been single for over 4 yrs and must say it has not been easy. The last person that I called myself being with was not good for me, so we separated but it really did something to me, so I vowed to remain single until my Mr Right comes along. Recently a child hood friend has been calling me making suggestions of being together, I’m really trying not to get too open to anything. He lives in another state but was recently married to someone from this same area, who they are now divorced then he ended up having an interracial relationship and with that a baby was conceived.
I’ve heard things about him being very promiscuous with the ladies. I DON’T WANT TO MESS UP MY CELIBACY FOR THE WRONG PERSON AND I CERTAINLY DON’T WANT TO SEEM VULNERABLE OR JUDGMENTAL. ALL I’M SIMPLY SAYING IS I NEED TO STAY PRAYED UP IN THIS AREA TO AVOID MAKING BAD CHOICES. AS IT ONCE WAS STATED TO ME, YOU CAN’T KEEP DOING THE SAME THING THE SAME WAY, AND EXPECTING A DIFFERENT RESULT. TRUST ME I WANT A RELATIONSHIP AT 54 ALMOST 55. HEY, EVEN MARRIAGE TO BE HONEST, BUT I’M NOT GOING BACKWARDS WITH FUN AND GAMES