Dear Lady. Ann
I’m 23 and my boyfriend is 39. I love and care for him very much. Despite our age difference, he has multiple sclerosis. However I’ve never thought differently of him and have stuck by his side. Just recently, after three months of being together, on the morning after I threw him a little birthday party with only the two of us, I found sneaky and sexually inappropriate text messages in his work phone with another woman. My heart was shattered. I agreed to stay with him but I just don’t trust him and have no idea what he’s doing when I’m away. He says the communication is cut off and he’ll never do anything like that again.
I also have to deal with him living with two female roommates. He always talks about how he likes one of them and how she’s such a beautiful and wonderful woman. I love him obviously if I’m still with him but I am not sure about this anymore. I’m completely confused and miserable along with being heartbroken. When I try to talk with him he gets frustrated and upset. I love him but I don’t want this relationship if he’s not going to be faithful and respectful to me and if he’s not going to value me and protect my heart. I want what God wants and I’m being as bold as ever by saying that. Please pray for God to lead me and guide me and favor and protect me in this situation.