Dear Lady. Ann:
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. He is the love of my life. This is the man I want to grow old with and die next to. He is currently going through a divorce. His soon to be ex-wife wants to move their son to Louisiana and he only get his son during the summer and holidays. Well this divorce is hurting our relationship so bad. He is completely shut down. We don’t do anything together. We only kiss once a day. We don’t talk much and the romance has died. Just all of it. He tells me he loves me but that’s it. I don’t know if there is an end to this. I don’t know if he will go back to the man I fell in love with. I feel so ignored. Unimportant. And like I just don’t matter any more. I stay up at night and just cry. I can’t sleep. I’m on antidepressants. Please tell me what I can do. I don’t want to lose him. He’s a great man.