Mon | Jun 14, 2021

He Wanted Us To Marry Afterwards



Dear Lady. Ann:

Please I need your help. I first saw your platform on YouTube last year where you titled one your post how you got married in 5 months. At first I didn’t believe, I just didn’t bother watching it. It kept on popping up in my notification but I didn’t bother. Then earlier this year I saw the same post, then I decided to watch it anyway. I felt the presence of God while I watched, I felt like light inside of my heart and I was so touched and emotional. I worshipped God. Your testimonies touched me a lot. I am someone who is from a broken home, I never really bothered about relationship. I just turned 23 and I have never been in a relationship. I have been undergoing inner healing process since last year. I had so many hurt.

Okay I just felt in my heart that God bringing your platform to me just maybe he wants to prepare me for marriage and or wants me to go into relationship, so I thought but wasn’t really ready in my mind. I have a male friend, we became friends all of a sudden when I prayed 3 years ago that God should show me my husband, or He should just put him around me. He proposed relationship last month, he wanted us to marry afterwards not just the dating stuff. He is a believer, we both have same goals and he loves God. But after 7 years I need your advice, at first I didn’t have a problem with the duration because I also did not want to marry early but I did not want a long relationship either. I prayed and I just had the knowing I wasn’t going to marry the so called time I planned. So I have been asking God concerning him, I haven’t gotten a response but I had peace concerning him at first. I wanted something tangible because I wanted to be sure before saying yes to this. Or is this just a temptation. I need your advise please. Thank you ma.