Dear Lady. Ann:
I’m a woman in the ministry, been doing it after college as God called me full time. I was never in any relationship because I have a principle since I was young that I will fall once and that once will be my husband. I’ve been so serious in the ministry but along the way a lot of guys too are starting to like and pursue me, but not any one of them I like. I really don’t know what’s wrong with me this time. I feel something inside that this is not the one. Then one man came in my life, he’s very close to me as just a brother in Christ. I did not notice that the closer I get to him the more I fall. So I prayed about him to God and asked God if he’s the one.
Then God showed me a dream confirming to me that he’s the one. I feel mutual things are happening to the both of us, but then along the way, another friend told me that guy knows what I feel for him, and he isn’t interested in me, he just sees me as friend. So I messaged him and said everything on my heart but I got hurt and started to cut off our connections. He never said anything. Not until a month after, he reaches out to me, but just asking me how am I and some normal stuff we’ve been talking about before, but he never discusses my feelings for him, although he knows it already. So things got complicated and I distanced myself to him until now. Do you think I made the right choice?