Tue | Jun 16, 2020

Do I Have To Lower My Standard?



Dear Lady. Ann:

I’m so glad you accepted me in your group. Thank you. First of all I’m a single mom of a daughter. I’ve been in a relationship with her dad for almost 3 years, but it was a toxic relationship. So after reflection I’ve decided to put an end to it. I have been single for 2 years now. In the meantime I had two relationships, but it didn’t work. Sometimes I feel as if I attract the wrong persons for real. They were both in a relationship and paused their relationship to be with me. I have put an end to this. I don’t want to live in sin. I want a life partner. But I always get disappointed. Is the problem with me? I pray so hard that someone someday could understand me and love me for who I am. Also eventually accept my daughter. Sometimes I feel alone. Sometimes I give up. I have some male friends but I don’t have any spiritual or physical attraction or even any connection with them. Do I have to change something or lower my standards? I don’t know, sometimes I feel like there’s no one for me on earth. Seriously. Thank you for reading and I will impatiently waiting for your kind response.