Dear Lady. Ann:
I had a man of God in God’s will. God showed me through dream and confirmed with the word of God that he is the one. We dated 2 years, but later on I came to know his behavior by one of my friends. He is suspecting me and scolded my parents very badly. These 2 years he was nice to me, but on the same side he is accusing me that I am wrong. He never opened up to me that he is suspecting me or scoldings and all, but revealing everything behind my back to my friends. I just found out 6 months ago. I just kept mute all these days. I am not talking to him. I forgave him and blessing him through my prayer, but I was in pain and God said me it is His will for me. And he is a very prayerful man, so is it wrong to not marry him cause we are in God’s will? Or shall I continue the relationship with him and marry him? I am in so much deep pain. Please give me an answer. I am very much afraid that God might punish me for not doing His will.