Dear Lady Ann:
Don’t know where to start from. For 7 years now every man that dates me starts to act up after the honey moon phase, mostly right after 90 days or before. They suddenly act up as soon as my walls come down. They later say they don’t want to get married and as soon as I let go, they go get married to the next woman or the lady who’s always been around somewhere (before me or during me maybe). What hurts is, after they get married, they come back wanting some sort of friendship (advice, the laughter, company) always saying they do not know why they got married to their wives.
I don’t give them the friendship out of respect for their marriage and also fear of the Lord. But this seems to be the trend. My recent ex swore he’d never get married, I walked away and a few months later, he’s married. I really need an intercession and advice because I’m beginning to think I’m cursed. My extended family is on my neck at every family event concerning my marriage. I’m beginning to get worried. I’m a little over 30 and no man has approached me in over a year or 2. Is there something wrong with me ? 😢 I’m tired