Dear Lady. Ann:
This summer I joined the Irresistible Woman program with Lady Ann. If you have not gone through this program, sis join! You will not be disappointed and forever changed. Prior to joining I was struggling to deal with a broken engagement of someone who consistently portrayed toxic traits but was still in my life as if nothing was wrong. I freed myself of the idea that we would work out. After some time, around Sept. I met what seemed to be my perfect match. We had nearly EVERYTHING in common and he was so caring, so loving, so thoughtful and so protective. Best of all, unlike my last relationship he was not trying to sleep with me. We did not live in the same state so when decided to meet up for weekend getaway and spend time together, he even purchased 2 separate rooms so that I would feel comfortable.
Shortly after, he said he needed to fall back and was dealing with a lot. Family illness, his business issues and he stated that trying to balance and communicate with me was too much. I have not heard from him since. He did state that he hopes things work out in our favor although he wasn’t asking me to wait or expecting me too. Meanwhile the ex fiancé is still reaching out and refusing to accept that we are over, apologizing over and over again for how he ruined our relationship and that he wants a future with me. However all I can think of is the man that I spent a couple of months getting to know and how much more I want to be with him rather than the ex fiancé I spent 5 years with. What is the meaning of this? I have prayed and prayed for direction and clarity, to really hear from God on this one. I don’t know if my patience and faith are being tested or if the new guy is truly never coming back.