Dear Lady. Ann:
I’ve been divorced recently with a 10 year old and a baby. My ex husband had a girl, I said girl because we are both in our forties and the girl is in her twenties, pregnant the same time I was with my baby. I kept my child because I thought we were married in the eyes of God and wanted a family. Long story short he made the girl have an abortion and I filed for divorce because the lies were getting unbearable. Since our divorce he has been dating anything that comes his way. I don’t know if it’s mid life crisis or what but I choose to take care of my daughters because I need to set an example for them. I am feeling so depressed and lost recently.
Friends keep coming and Saying they are seeing him liming all over and enjoying life. I feel like God is giving me more than I can handle. I am overwhelmed. When we were married he always used to be sick and stayed in bed doing nothing all day. Never want to go anywhere etc. Now he has no responsibility and acts like 15 while I am stuck seeing about a baby and a soon to be teen. Life is so unfair. Thank you for allowing me to vent.