Tue | Sep 8, 2020

He Ended Up Being The Nephew Of A Friend



Dear Lady. Ann:

Well two years ago I was in broken down relationship and was traveling for work. I saw a stranger at an airport, I didn’t know his name at the time but my whole body mind and spirit just moved. I tried to find out his name and to my surprise he came and stood in front of me in the queue to check in on the same airline. I only had a glance of his name on his bag.
Then we parted on different planes and I forgot about him but I remember telling God if he’s the one for me he will return back into my life.

Couple of months later I traveled to an Army anniversary celebration and I saw this person who just stood out sitting next to an elderly woman. I remember saying that is a good looking guy. And that was the end of that, didn’t see him again. When I returned home, my relationship with a younger man I was seeing was ending and we were just constantly fighting and I kept getting miscarriages, we had a break. In that break I studied and met some great ladies especially a Christian sister, I was pouring out my heart on my relationship problems with men and she told me I have a nephew that is single, I said yes and she showed me a picture of the guy. I remember thinking he’s a looker and asked for his name, to my surprise it was the guy I met at the airport and the same guy at the army celebration. I didn’t even realize he was my friend on Facebook.

Apparently I was friends with his aunty. So we starting talking on Facebook then called each other then I asked a few people about him and told them we were talking on the phone. When this guy found out he argued with me then told me not to contact him again. So today, two years later he’s made contact with me again working with the army and doing surveillance work in my community. I’ve noticed a spiritual growth in him and before he wasn’t spiritual, at the start of this year I did up a prayer request for my future husband and two nights ago I found my self praying to God asking him if this man that has come back into my life. is he my future husband? I opened my prayer book and turned to my husband prayer and each line just jumped out at me and made me cry, what I was asking God for was in this man.

What do I do now, we communicate sometimes on FB messenger and he’s leaving tonight on his rotation and will be back in a month. I’ve planned a retreat in two weeks to get out this negative thoughts, anger and frustration I have been having from my recent local elections that I’ve lost, Lady Ann please share your words with me. I got tagged to your page and everything you have said just jumps up from the screen at me.
Help???