Dear Lady. Ann:
I am a 34 years old lady with one child and unmarried. Ten years ago I separated with the father of my child and I have never been in love again. I have been in relationships with good men but I will break up with them for no reason. Two years ago I met a very loving and responsible man though I had to let him go because he never been honest with me about his marital status. I found out from home affairs that he was in customary marriage with another woman and he never told me about it.
Early this year I met someone again, we became good friends, he says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Am worried that I might end up breaking his heart like what has been happening in the past. I really need help. I feel there is a demon in me that changes my mind every time. I am becoming close to someone, can you please recommend a counselor for me. I don’t want to lose this good man I have now.
Regards
MM Phehle