Dear Lady. Ann:
I’m new to this group but I really felt to type this. I have had a lot of “almost” relationships but God always intervenes and stops them, but later I always see the picture why God told me no. I’ve been single, living for God for almost 3 years. I recently was talking to a guy who said he was Christian but his actions said otherwise. I was basically a mom to him, trying to get him stronger in his spiritual walk. Out of the blue he told me to get over him because he feels that he’s just going to hurt me. After him I was done. I told God I’m just focusing on you. I’m going to pay real attention if the next guy is really a man of God. I took a full month of just focusing on God and healing from that small heartbreak. Out of the blue my Worship leader asked me if I wanted to play for a live service and she would have someone joining us.
Long story short ever since me and him met we haven’t stopped talking. It’s been a little over a month. And his words match with his actions. He’s a Man of God, he will preach me a word or a sermon if he wants lol. He’s a worshipper like me, and we’re very similar personality wise. We hangout and we always have a great time. He calls and texts me out of blue, or says when he gets out of work and me too, but he recently got out of a toxic engagement 3 months ago so that’s where I’m wondering if that’s why he’s stalling. I really feel my spirit connect with him, we worship together as well, since we’re a part of worship teams. I’ve been keeping in prayer about it. And I really feel God is saying yes for me to continue to talk to him. But I guess it’s just me being impatient, but I just want to know if he even sees me like that? Because he’s also the type that has a lot of girls as friends because of how nice he is. So I don’t know if he’s just being super nice to me. We talk also like 4 am if I don’t work, or he just calls me randomly. Prayers please, thank you ladies ❤️