Dear Lady. Ann:
I met my boyfriend on my birthday a year ago. On November 17th, 2018, he told me he was still married, living under the same roof with her but he was getting a divorce. Needless to say, I was livid. He moved out and got his own place. I up rooted my kids and made the move to Kansas from Missouri in July. It’s been good for the most part up until a couple months ago. He has become distant. I started receiving calls and text messages from people I do not know telling me that they are not divorced. I have met none of his family or his friends. I moved to the same town where he has been living and his wife and her kids live here also. His wife lives 15 minutes from us. We do not go anywhere together in town. If we go out to eat, it is out of town.
Someone has been hacking into my email and Facebook account. At one point I found his wife and her daughter on my block list in Facebook and I did not put them there. I am beginning to feel like a dirty secret. When I comment on a post or post something on his Facebook, he deletes it. When I ask him about it, he gets all defensive. At one point someone texted me telling me to go on the Kansas court website and pay the $1.50 to see if he is divorced. I can’t bring myself to do it. I honestly do not want to know. I have a feeling he is still married and is going to go back to her. I’ve heard he has done this before. I want to tell her but I know the hell I would pay if I did. I am tired of the games. What should I do?
#DLATribe, what should she do?