Dear Lady. Ann:
There are people who like to keep things private and all of that, but I am not that way. I love to share about my life on social media and I’m not ashamed to say it any day, anytime. Its not just me wanting to flaunt all that good stuff happening to me, but I feel there is so much bullshit out there on social media, there’s really nothing wrong with a little black love celebration out there.
I have posted about my relationships in the past and when it was over, I would just delete all my pictures with that person and keep it moving. If anyone feels like keeping track of how many men I’ve been with because I post about it, then that’s their business, not mine. My current boyfriend seems to disagree with me. He posts about all the other shit going on in his life except our relationship. He thinks people will be all up in his business if he posts about us, but who cares though? For me, if you’re my man, I want my face all over your social media. I want you to flaunt that good thing (which is me) and celebrate me privately and publicly. You don’t have to talk about where we going and all of that, just celebrating your woman. And if you’re loyal to only me, there is really nothing to be worried about.
We have argued severally about this. He even posts pictures of his kids from his ex, and he says there is nothing wrong with that. I think that’s some interesting bullshit. You don’t mind people being all up in your business regarding your kids, but you mind when it comes to your girl? That’s foul. How do I convince him that posting about me on social media is kinda like my love language?
-Social Media Lover
#DLATribe, how can she convince him to post about her? Or is his reluctance a red flag?